Help I've got nothing to wear!!!

With the change of season it is nice to run out and shop up a new wardrobe. New colors, patterns and styles. Big But: If you don't have the budget it can be a wistful time of 'I've got nothing to wear!!!!!! Here are three steps on how to turn your 'wist' into feeling new season dazzling beautiful.


1) The Basics. 
Team your clothes together in basic/base colors. We all have them in our wardrobes, if not save up and invest in some classic, timeless pieces. We're talking: white, denim, gray, and black's together - i.e. denim and a white shirt, or black pants, black shirt, and a gray or black coat...For Spring go for more denim and whites and for autumn start to go into the darks. Then...

2) Accessories. 
Accessories don't have to cost a fortune and they are an easy way to bring new season color into any wardrobe. So team your basic look with new season color: bracelets, beads, earrings, shoes, scarves, bags, sunglasses/glasses, headbands,....etc. For Spring we are loving fresh, happy, pale colors and for Autumn, try vibrant yet dark blues and metallic browns. Don't just wear one either, layer them up in the same tones. Finish with...


3) Makeup. 
It's all in the makeup so change it up. Tone down to paler soft colors for spring and add soft 'blush' cheeks. Step it up a notch with brighter and darker lip tones for autumn and a touch heavier eye shadow if you dare.

Most of all, it's about having fun, so try a few new colors and makeup looks this season.

Yellow wooden beads from:
http://www.fashionjewelleryhouse.co.uk/fashion-jewellery-blog/index.php/a-wood-bead-bracelet-is-the-easy-way-to-bring-colour-into-your-outfit/

Top 5 fun!

1) Check out these cute meal time fun plates for the kids. Face plates to inspire your children to eat while having fun at the same
time. http://www.alfrescoemporium.com.au/index.asp?p=store&l=2134&r=142

2) Overnight hair moisturising! Banish the dry winter season away and get your hair into spring silky shape with: Pantene Night Miracle Cream http://www.pantene.com.au/en-AU/product/PANTENE_NIGHT_MIRACLE.jspx


3) Ever forgot to pick up 'that card' for a friend's event, birthday or life happening moment, well never fear just get your self a emergency box of cards to cover any occasion.
http://www.papierdamour.com.au/index.phpPCID=7688&PSO=188&PSID=VB03&PSV=Primary&CDO=


4) Feather jewelry! So whimsical, soft and very spring! Check out these soft pink feather earring from Diva http://www.diva.net.au/#/product/1775


5) Vanilla. The smell of vanilla is gorgeous. Simply fill a spray bottle with metho add some vanilla essence and you have a beautiful surface spray that will fill your house with the smell of cupcakes, candles, love and fresh peace.


Tell us what you love. Send your ideas, hints and beautiful things to fradazmag@westnet.com.au
Check out these earrings I found, and that you can purchase too.

To Tattoo or Not?

Ever seriously contemplated if you should get a tattoo? - What about a fleeting thought of: what it would be like or what you would have?
 Katherine, who designs tattoos, shares with us just what it is about this 'skin art' that is so very trendy, and if your brave enough to bare your flesh - what to do.

Tattoos can be 'taboo' to many, and to others an exciting ' always wanted one' subject. 
This 'skin art' form is becoming more and more popular: business men, house wives and even the younger generation seem to be popping up with them.

There are so many different types of tattoos: plain black and white, color, grey or even a UV tattoo.


Tattoos are all about expression, an express of you,  and thats why I love them. I don’t have one yet, but  I have already designed and picked two tattoos that I want to get…so far.

My Sister got her first tattoo on her trip to America. 
It is Kanji (Japanese text) that means Small Branch. When I asked her why she got it, she replied ever so wisely; “Small Branch comes from John 15, "I am the vine and you are the branches, remain in me" The 'Small part' is to remind me that I am a small part of a bigger picture.” 
Her tattoo is really tasteful and sits on top of her foot. 
These, day tattoos are not all about great big pieces that cover your whole body but rather tasteful pictures, symbols, and text.


Tattoos not only serve as art, but also as reminders. For the majority of people who have tattoos, it’s a sometimes painful, but pleasant memory of a chapter in their lives.  

In getting one and baring my flesh, I have to admit, I’ve thought and thought about the consequences, “what if I don’t like it?” “What will it look like when I get older?” - we all think these thoughts, so here are my 'I'm getting a tattoo tips:

1. Choose your tattoo. If you can’t find a specific design you want, All you need now is an arty friend, who can draw one for you, or you can go into the tattoo parlor and most will design one for you.


2. Research is the key! First mistake in tattoo’s is not researching! I’m very adamant about this because no one wants to end up with something they regret. If you are getting script make sure you have the spelling right and if it is in a different language make sure you get someone who actually speaks that language to make sure it means what it means.
 
3. Here is an important thing, PLACING! A fun experiment is to get some fake tattoos and place them where you think you want your real one.
 
4. More Research, this time research Tattoo parlors. Look around on the internet, go visit the shop and talk to your tattooed friends about where they got their’s done. You will never get a hundred percent great feedback on one place, but all you need to do is ask why? 

5. Last but MOST IMPORTANT! Don’t be hasty! My number one rule for tattoos is I have to have a picture of the tattoo and put it somewhere i can see it everyday and if I still like it after six to eight months, then I will get it. Try that and see, if after six months you don’t like it, throw it away, and if your sure, then make an appointment and go for it!

I guess in the end its all about personal preference, which is Aok! 


Your body is a temple, but how long can you live in the same house before you redecorate? -- Author Unknown

Going Nude!

How good are shoes = goooood!!! 

I love how shoes can take an outfit and simply make it! Why do a pair of shoes make us women feel beautiful? – Who knows but they do, so coming into Spring look out for a pair of ‘nude’ colored shoes.

Nude shoes are in. They are sophisticated, not over the top, and classy.

Heels, wedge, strappy, flats - they come in all styles.

Why wear:

- They lengthen your leg.

- They take a dark outfit and lighten  

  the look which is great as you 

  transition from colder months to 

  warmer weather wardrobe.

- They are sexy summery goodness.

Tips on how to wear:

1) Look for really plain ones and avoid HUGE buckles and embellishment on the toe area.

2) Shinny finish will allow the shoe to stand out more than matte finish but the choice is yours.

3) Look for a color that is slightly darker than your skin tone as you don’t want them disappearing into your leg.

4) Try one with a heel to make your legs appear really long.

5) If you’re not sure what color outfits to pair them with start with with dark denim, dark or strong colors i.e. green, red, blue, pinks, black. They also go really well white and with a bit of beige/nude.

6) In summer pair them with lighter denim and or pastel colors for a light and fresh summer look.

7) Yes you can wear them with flowery patterns.

8) Don’t wear all beige with nude shoes, make sure you add a block color to break up the beige – too much beige is not a good thing.

Have fun with Nude shoes. - Go Nude!

Elizabeth xx

Do share with us: Why do you love shoes???

Little Black Dress Moments - Wednesday 'Real' Read

Today Amanda shares her 'life bumped me' moment. Check it out - it is an issue that affects as all - our self talk based on what others say! We all have lived this one. Be simply encouraged.

Self Talk, what a scary thought! The words go off like an alarm, don’t want to go there - nope!

The scary part is that when you get up the courage to take a little peek into your own self talk you have to be honest and put ‘You’ all out on the table: flaws, constant changing moods, struggles, wins, how you feel about your physical looks, your performance as either/or a wife, mother, daughter, sister, or in your career, role, and on.... Self talk = all of me!

So what do I really say about all of me?

Ok..., to be honest it’s something I am working on! Yep I should be nice to me, and lovely, and I should know that I am beautiful for who I am. I should be praying and remembering God’s words during the good and certainly during the struggles... shouldn’t I....??? But yeah, those ‘shoulds’ can all go out the window with that thing called logic, (I am still trying to call it back I think?)

Why? 

Because my ‘sneak peek’ revealed that a major contributor to some of my “self talk” seems to come from what others say. Not the best realization; but true none the less.

On a day I am feeling appreciated by others I am great, it’s like “you go girl, you will be fine!” but then there are the other days... Like the other night when I walked out of the bedroom to show my husband what I was wearing out and thinking “wow, I’m looking really hot tonight!” and he said “You're not wearing that are you? - It really doesn’t do anything for you! (Ahhh little ‘black dress’ moments!)

It’s in these moments we can go from feeling great, to one second later feeling like we are useless, we can’t put an outfit together, we can’t do anything right, don’t even mention the body...well if only!

If only I didn’t have the love handles there or I was taller/shorter or weighed a little less. If only I was smarter, had more time, more money, that promotion, looked like her. If only = all of me!!!

Wow, I sound crazy! But you know what I’m talking about.

We know that it should not matter what people say about us and we know that we should not base our self-esteem on what others say, the good (that’s really nice) and the bad, because people can’t be perfect for us. Yet, it does matter...

As hard as we try not to let it, our self talk is influence by the comments of others. So what can we do? It all comes down to reminding myself who I am in God’s eyes and not theirs – and God’s comment is Love.

God loves us just as we are. He created us enough in Him and that includes all our ‘if only’ and ‘shoulds’.

It’s Him I have to come back to.

To say this is easy is a lie, and it’s something I’ve found I have to work on every day, it does not come naturally, but if we keep going, we get better.

“Self talk”? , It’s not really that scary anymore because I’m placing it on the table of ‘I am learning’. Learning to come back to God and what His love means, learning to keep moving forward even when those self doubts caused by me or from others pipe up, and learning to get back up when I am down. We are progressing, and we are not giving up.

Ta Amandaxx

- Amanda Goebel is a soon to be mum with her first bubby on the way. She and hubby Josh can't wait for this new chapter in their life. We will let you know all the details when bub arrives.

Top 5 for July!

It's that time of the month where we share our favorite fun, inspirational, or quaint things for the month. 
You are going to have fun with these and feel beautiful too.

Check it, our top 5:

1) Dry skin = no probs. Try something new: Rose Hip Oil, for a really deep moisturize. It smells beautiful and will soften and hydrate dry skin in no time. www.kosmea.com.au

2) Sesame Street Fun. Sesame Street is celebrating 40 years, yep that’s right. So get your Elmo, Cookie Monster, Big Bird, Grover, Bert and Ernie, Oscar, Count, Snuffi, and more on! Next week pay tribute to this children’s educational and entertainment show that has delighted little kids and big kids: 
Wear it, watch it, remember it!

3) Big signature ring. One hand, one finger and on it: Your fav signature you. Flowers, hearts, birds, round, square, gems, plain, just wear what grabs you. We love it just cause we can!! Oh and it does not have to be expensive either, check out the nearest jewelry chain store near you.

4) Money Jar. Christmas is around the bend and that means money$$$$! Check out this great Money Jar idea from ‘be a fun mum’   for a very merry merry Christmas! 
http://beafunmum.com/2009/08/the-2-jar/

5) Lipstick message. Do write in lipstick across the mirror, one thing you love about you. Who has not wanted to at times scrawl a special message across the mirror in your fav color lipstick! This message is for you, a defining quality or physical feature you like about you and seal it with your own kiss. 
It’s a little moment of real truth for you to remind you of your own diverse beauty inside and out. 


Don't forget to check out the Amazon shop, on the right, for all of the above and more July ideas.


Have a great, fun and beautiful Friday and weekend everyone. 
Elizabeth xx

Get Your Grrrrrr On.

Fradaz has gone all things animal!

Wearing Animal print is really in at the moment, no matter the season. It is really fun, a little daring especially if you have never worn it, and it can look gorgeously hot.

Animal Print is happening everywhere but there are a few rules to look chic in it, and not end up looking a bit tacky. 

So, check out these top tips on how to get your Grrrrrr on:

First - it's all in the basics: Build your look around basic outfit neutrals.

We‘re talking: black, white, grey, dark denim, or beige.  Never add color, (no arguments), color paired with animal print is a little toooo cute, hey there is cute but then there’s tooooo cute with no chic in sight :) .

Now - the fun bit – your look.

Simply add your animal print to the outfit in either one of these two ways.

Just a touch: The accessory!

Pick a couple of the following to jazz up that outfit with a taste of animal.

Animal print: Necklace, handbag, clutch bag, shoes, scarf, hair band, hats, stylish beanies, earrings, socks, bangles.

- Only add a maximum of 2 accessories as too many will look a little try hard over the top. Try these combos or just stick with one item: 

             A clutch with either: shoes, beanie, or necklace, or earrings.

             A hair band with either: a tote bag, clutch, or shoes.

             A scarf with: shoes, or socks.

             Bangles with either: shoes, scarf, hat, or earrings.

                                                     Experiment and see what you like...

- Don't pair items too close together - all in one area i.e. necklace and 

earrings = to much in one spot/area of the body, you just end up looking cluttery.

Or You can go,

Bold: The statement piece! 

One piece of clothing that totally sets your outfit on the growl.

Animal Print: Jacket, trench. skirt, floaty dress, shorts, stockings, blouse, knee high boots.

- With a statement look, Only, only, only do one piece of the outfit in animal print, say NO to many.

- Never pair animal print accessories with the statement piece as you will look totally overdone. Keep accessories to basic neutral colors i.e. black earrings, black clutch, black boots, black strap heals ect…

- Steer away from animal print long pants, we are just not going there :) .

- Avoid stretchy cheaper animal print fabrics as they look cheap and a bit tacky on, not what we are going for.

Now all that is left is to walk confidently, you can wear any look if you hold your head up and be You - Get your Grrrrr on!

Add some 'visible' COLOUR!

Here in Australia it is winter and this can means layers and layers of black, gray, brown, charcoal….

I personally find it so easy to just blend in with all my shades of dark! (Hey I like black, it’s slimming right!!! ;))

Mostly it’s all unintentional: I get up and pull my jeans on, grab my black or gray or brown shirt, then a dark jacket and I am out the door. Sadly I can carry this over into spring and summer as well.
Now I am the first to admit that an all black outfit has its place – it looks smart and sexy - but mmmmm I think it is time to bring back some colour. Extra BIG BUT: I don’t really want to stand out as a vibrant, hyper color eyesore either.

This winter, or whatever season you find yourself, lets add colour in a small way. It suits any budget, chases that ‘blending away’, and you can do it in your own comfortable, beautiful, and visible way.

Adding a touch of colour is sure to brighten up your day, bring out more of your beautiful femininity, and we can be our own visible unique.

Here are 6 ways you can add some visible colour:

Scarf: Drape a bright scarf around your body. There are no rules just wear it anyway you like. Try patterns, bold colours, or crisp fresh pastels.

Hat: There are so many gorgeous hats and beanies available but just don’t settle for one that blends in with what your are wearing try something new, be bold, and opt for a bright colour: Pink, blue, yellow. You could even knit one in your fav colour. If hats are not your thing you can even wear clip on flowers in your hair.

Shoes: Bright pink, red, green, blue, purple, orange just go for it. I mean is there really anything cuter then a bright hint of colour peeking out from underneath your jeans or pants (nope!). If you are really bold go for knee high boots in a vivid colour paired with your fav skirt or over your jeans = hot!

Nails: Invest in a ‘moment’ for you and have your nails done by a professional. Choose that daring bright colour, it will definitely add a splash of feminine beauty to your day and outfits. Plus it’s fun and does your mind and soul good to invest in a little pamper for you.
- If the budget won't work for this have your friends around and take turns pampering each other with a hand massage and painting nails.

Jewels: Anything from pendants, beads, brooches, earrings, to bangles - the sky’s the limit, just go for it.

Eyes: There is nothing more beautiful than women’s eyes so turn them into colour stunners with your favourite shade of colour eye shadow: mint green, emerald, lilac, purple, gold, pink...go with what you’re in the mood for. If it’s too bold bright, (hey we don’t want to visit the 70’s) just mix the colour with your fav shade of light brown or gray for an earthier toned down colour look.
-Don’t forget, a touch of blush will give you a rosy cheek look. It's perfect when wearing any dark outfit.


Check out these websites and eBay links for inspiration and great ideas. 
(You can even purchase them but hurry as bidding or stock may run out!)
Don't forget to check out our Amazon store for some great ideas and/or purchases too.

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/NEW-Women-PURPLE-Knit-Brim-Beanie-Cap-Newsboy-Visor-Hat-/110516320769?cmd=ViewItem&pt=AU_Women_Accessories&hash=item19bb493a01#ht_1633wt_912

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/KAFIERS-CHECKER-WOMEN-SCARVES-BRAND-NEW-/150430458131?cmd=ViewItem&pt=AU_Women_Accessories&hash=item23065aa113#ht_2039wt_912

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/NEW-Ladies-Red-Ballet-Flats-Size-38-/220613052119?cmd=ViewItem&pt=AU_Women_Shoes&hash=item335d9006d7#ht_500wt_928

http://cgi.ebay.com.au/Purple-Wedge-Heel-Boots-/150452225886?cmd=ViewItem&pt=AU_Women_Shoes&hash=item2307a6c75e#ht_500wt_1154

http://www.makeupstyleideas.com/

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